Asking Permission if its a Relationship
When a couple is dating, should they ask permission to go out and permission to sleep over and permission to ask permission...WTF????
Why is it that couples (NOT MARRIED) are doing this. I feel like I must report back on EVERYTHING i do and in return I get asked "Can i do this"...
Next time he asks Im gonna say: "Yes you may go howver I wish to know (1where you (2) Priod of time that you will be there (3) Name and tel no of restaurant or whatever (4) Which seat you'll be on and lastly How much do you plan to spend on her!"
We are young and should enjoy our lives and not live it reporting back to or watching a loved ones life and critting and asking too many questions...apparently we leave that to the BIG M word....marriage!
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It's only courteous to ask. You can't call it " asking for permission " because it's not.
Lets quickly sketch a scenario. If the boyfriend decided to meet up with a friend (a very hot attractive female friend)for drinks would it not be in his best interest to inform the girlfriend and to rather get approval (permission) than to do it behind her back with the worried thought in the back of his mind that mabe someone (prolly a friend of the girlfriend) would see the "said boyfriend and his female friend" sipping drinks ??????
It would be in the boyfriends best interest to just tell the his girlfriend that he will be joining someone for drinks. Done ..deal .. if the girlfriend said no then it's no .. but at least run it buy her. I can probably assure you that 9 / 10 females will never let the boyfriends go off with a hot attractive female or any female for that matter.. unless they accompanied them, which btw.. is not a bad idea. Some prefer to be alone. * schrug*
my 2 cents
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